When I first began my escorting career, I searched for a mentor. I looked on Eros and other websites that were fairly big at the time and reached out to women to see if they offered this service. Most did not respond, thinking of me as competition I suppose. I did eventually find someone, but she seemed to only want to offer me to her current clients for a cut of my earnings! I did this for a while and it was very uncomfortable for me. Some of her clients were quite scary. I really didn’t learn anything, other than “Hilary, you can’t charge that much! Men simply will not pay over 150 for an hour.”
I was of the mindset that if I charged more, I may get a better clientele! You know, like filter out the riffraff. She thought that was ridiculous. I was new and green, so I put my head down and followed her advice.
It’s something that many of us start out doing very alone and there can be a gigantic learning curve, like there was for me. I would have loved to have had the opportunity to have someone well established in the business to provide guidance. And I would have gladly paid top dollar for their time and expertise! But back when I began, (other than pimps) there was no one around!
And that is what I want to offer to others who are either just starting out, or to those who simply feel stuck, want someone to talk to, or bounce ideas off of, talk shop, or perhaps need some advice in a challenging situation.
Ive dealt with a wide variety of issues, big and small, over the course of my 10 plus years in the business. Everything from finding a good photographer, how to screen successfully, how to search for the perfect spot for entertaining, what to charge, good boundary setting, what to say in an ad, to how to deal with stigma, online harassment, and YES, arrest and publicity. I’d love to help you navigate through the sometimes difficult and crazy aspects of this business. Something that I had to do very much alone through my entire career. And even though this is a business that we all do OUR OWN WAY and very independently, nobody wants to feel completely isolated.
I am now offering several types of packages including a simple hourly rate. We can meet at your place, my place, a coffee shop, or any place of your choosing.
2 hours every week for a month/1200
12 meetings over the course of 6 months/2500
These rates include me being available via email or text on an as needed basis.