At least once a week, I’ll hear from a guy who tells me how hesitant he was to contact me. This always surprises me! In my mind, I’m just another dork!…..and totally approachable.
So let me tell you what I am like when you meet me.
I am down to earth, straightforward, direct and I love open interactions. Laughter flows from me rather easily. I’m not going to see you and begin making judgements based on how you look, how you talk, how you dress, or how you feel about yourself. ‘In fact, I tend to gravitate towards older guys who are a bit more humble and withdrawn or socially awkward. I like the nerds who never went to senior prom and never had a girlfriend in highschool, but dreamed of having one like me! 😉
If you are an EGO filled, young, buff stud, out to prove to me what a great lover you are, you DON’T interest me in the least. In fact, I can’t think of anything less sexy. If your sole goal is to show me how great you can make me come, don’t bother, it just turns me OFF.
If you are a little shy and unsure of yourself, I am completely comfortable with drawing you out as a man and helping you find your inner Casanova!
I’ve tried tweeting about this recently on my Twitter account, but I wasn’t able to fit the message into 140 (or less) characters. What I was trying to get across is that I like being with guys who are a bit outside of the normal, socially-acceptable stereotypes for sexiness. I like the guys who tell me they spent months before they could work up the nerve to contact me. I like the guys who perhaps haven’t been with a woman for 5 or 6 or 7 years. I like the guys who don’t believe they can be attractive to a woman, or excite her, or bring her pleasure! I like the guys who have techniques that are not practiced or smooth, and who might stumble a bit in their eagerness to strive for an ideal encounter. Just leave it up to me to get you to where you need to go to find your bliss–after all, I’m the professional. 😉
And yet there’s much more to this than sex, or performance, or how much money you make, or all the shallow, material things the advertising world has taught us to measure ourselves by. I feel much more connected, on every level, to a real human being, a person who is not trying to prove a point or get his ego massaged. What REALLY TURNS ME ON is having a sense that we have truly connected, and shared something real between us.
So, if you are shy, afraid to contact me, or don’t think you deserve a great time, you’re wrong! And I would like to prove it to you! Everybody is anxious or nervous about contacting or meeting me for the first time. And that’s ok….I expect it! So all you have to do is take the first step, and I will take over from there! I’m EASY! ….but not CHEAP! 😉